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Anal sex is a subject that I get asked about all the time…
Either a guy wants to know how he can get a girl to try it, or he already tried, she said “no way,” and now he wants to turn things around.
And the truth is… anal sex gets a very bad rap these days. For this reason, a lot of girls are hesitant to try it.
They hear it’s too painful…
Or it’s messy…
Or even that it’s simply not pleasurable.
The thing is, it can be all those things, but when it’s done right, it can also feel amazing–for BOTH of you.
(One of the big reasons why this is is because anal sex stimulates a woman’s “Deep Spot.” <a href=”https://gothamclub.com/3-types-orgasms-5gm/?post=minicta12252021a” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>Click here to see more about a woman’s “Deep Spot” and how to hit it for maximum pleasure.</a>)
So that’s what I want to talk about today.
I’ll show you how to ease a girl into anal sex if she’s never tried it before, along with what to do if she says “no” outright.
And what’s amazing is that you don’t need to have a long conversation about it, or wait for weeks to her to warm up to it.
In fact, quite often, this works to get her to suggest anal sex to you first… as if it’s her idea.
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(Because after all, <a href=”https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5588879/” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>studies</a> show 19-32% of women have had anal sex in the past 6-12 months. It’s not nearly as rare as you might expect.)
But before I tell you exactly how you are going to pull this off, I should tell you who I am…
Hi, I’m Glenn Pearce–and as part of my new series, <a href=”https://gothamclub.com/ss-5-texts” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>Ask Glenn</a>, I’m answering all of your most difficult, burning questions that keep you up at night.
And today, I’m answering this one:
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<h2>“What’s the best way to get a girl to have anal sex with you?”</h2>
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</ul><ul><li>My personal experience with the pros and cons of having anal sex with a new woman…</li>
</ul><ul><li>The HUGE mistake men make during anal that stops girls from wanting to do it again (and how to always avoid it)…</li>
</ul><ul><li>3 mind-blowing orgasm techniques that will open her up to new & adventurous things in the bedroom…</li>
</ul><ul><li>A step-by-step method to get a girl to enthusiastically agree to anal sex using VERY little effort…</li>
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<h2>How To Get Her “Anally Addicted” to You With Powerful Waves of Anal Orgasms</h2>
Once you get a girl to have anal sex with you for the first time… here’s the next thing you should do:
1) Get her ready for sex, in normal missionary-style position on her back.
It’s OK if she seems a little disappointed right now. In fact, she may want to have anal again. That’s cool–you’re gonna give her exactly what she wants in a minute…
2) Have her put her legs up in the air and start having anal with her.
She may squirm a bit at first, but if she’s moaning, or backing onto you, at this point, you know she’s into it. Which means it’s time for:
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The combination of the pressure deep inside of her, and <a href=”https://gothamclub.com/5-finger-tantra/?post=12252021a” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>this rhythmic Tantric fingering technique</a> has given girls the most powerful orgasms I’ve seen.
I’ve used it on a ton of girls who were initially reluctant to do anal… and afterward, they begged me to f**k them in the butt while fingering them like this every time we had sex from then on.
(Not that I always do anal every time I have sex with a girl–far from it. But at least you have the option to, you know?)
And if you wanna go back to regular sex, the good news is you can use <a href=”https://gothamclub.com/5-finger-tantra/?post=12252021a” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>this same Tantric technique </a>during foreplay or normal sex for pretty powerful orgasms too.
Just watch this video to see how it’s done, and every girl you use it with will be begging you for more anal from now on:
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Don’t just walk in the door, slap a bucket of lube on the table and say, “Let’s do this!” Start by asking her what she thinks about anal.
Then discuss any experiences with anal that the two of you have had. Let her know that you’ve been reading up on it and that you’d like to try it sometime.
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Don’t ask for or try and force an immediate response. If she needs some time — minutes, weeks, months, it doesn’t matter — let her take the time she needs to come around to the idea.
And let her know that you will be there when she decides, no matter which way she comes down on the subject.
Another way to gauge her interest (and how to get her to have anal eventually) is to engage in some casual <a href=”https://gothamclub.com/mia-khalifa/” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>butt play</a> long before you even bring up the topic with her. During foreplay, massage and lick the area around her butthole while performing oral sex.
Many women love to have their ass eaten.
Another option is to grab her butt cheeks and massage the area around her anus as you thrust inside her, perhaps while licking or sucking her nipples.
If she seems receptive to the massaging, next time, penetrate just a little with your finger during vaginal sex. These are ways to patiently broach the concept of the ass as an erogenous zone without even mentioning anal sex.
Then you can eventually bring up the topic by saying something along the lines of, “You know how much you like it when I play with your ass during sex…?” — and go from there.
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<h2>2) Reassure her.</h2>
An important aspect of keeping open the lines of communication with your partner is to help her feel reassured and comfortable.
When first discussing the prospect of anal, let her know that you will go slow, be gentle and follow her lead.
Let her know that many women find it pleasurable and are even able to have an orgasm from anal penetration. Explain that you know it may be a little difficult or weird at first but that once she is able to relax, it can feel awesome.
There is no rush — nor should there be. As you’re getting started and throughout the event, keep checking in and making sure she’s OK.
Especially if it’s the first time for her, she could feel some discomfort or like she is having a bowel movement, and it may take several minutes for her muscles to relax.
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In the beginning, as you’re exploring anal, you have to be prepared not to get to the finish line, and if she asks to stop, you need to stop… and gently. No abrupt or sudden movements in the early stages of anal.
One of women’s biggest fears about anal is the potential for pain. And that is a real possibility:
Torn tissue and other injuries can occur without adequate lube and preparation.
Reassure her that you will do all you can to reduce the discomfort and make anal an all-around pleasurable experience.
That being said, if a girthy fellow approaches a virgin bunghole (and I am speaking from experience, here) the potential for pain goes both ways. So, if you’re packing a little more girth than others, it behooves you to help ease the way for both of you.
If you properly lay the groundwork (see below) and use a lot of lube, you can greatly reduce the chances for discomfort.
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<h2>3) Get her in a good mood.</h2>
Doing something to relax a bit before getting started will definitely help set the stage for a more enjoyable anal experience. So set some mood lighting and sensual music.
Perhaps a hot bath and some wine or other adult beverage of her choice — but not enough to be totally drunk, as you’ll both want to function.
If you live in a 420-friendly state, that’s another way to go.
Then start in with a backrub. Use a lotion or oil that is mildly scented and designed to relax her.
During the massage, pay special attention to her ass. Rub her hips, and gently knead her cheeks and the backs of her thighs.
If you and your partner enjoy watching porn together, some sexy anal porn may also help get her into the mood. You want to make sure that the video highlights the sexy side of anal and that it contains nothing alarming about the penetration — stay away from anything too aggressive or violent-seeming. You want sexy and easy.
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An ideal video would be one in which the woman is trying anal for the first time and completely gets off on it. They’re out there:
Pick the right one for you and your partner.
Ultimately, there are many ways to help your lady friend relax—more than can reasonably be included in this anal sex guide. Be creative and use what you know about your girl to help her feel comfortable. 😉
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<h2>4) Start off slow. </h2>
Again, virgin butts may require some preparation over an extended time before even trying penetration—so that you can both experience all the benefits anal sex has to offer.
Again, start by easing into her ass with your fingers during your regular sex sessions. Start small, a fingertip or even your pinky at first.
Be sure to massage the area around her anus and make sure there is plenty of lube down there, whether saliva, come or vaginal lubrication.
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Also remember, once your finger goes in the number two hole, it does not go back into the vagina or anywhere else before it’s been cleaned.
Over a few sessions, use a larger finger and more of a finger. Once she is getting off with your thumb in her ass, gently try two fingers the next time.
When she becomes comfortable with and is enjoying two fingers in her butt during vaginal or oral sex, it’s probably safe to try anal sex.
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You should use a water-based lubricant or a lube that is designed specifically for ass play and anal sex (And yes — they’re out there).
You will need to lube both yourself and her anus both around the outside and just inside. Again, for hygiene reasons, you should be wearing a condom for anal sex.
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Before you get down to anal though, you both should be highly turned-on.
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<h3>6) Lots of foreplay too.</h3>
In fact, foreplay is so important that you should never try anal sex without it. If she has an orgasm — or a few orgasms — before you move to the ass, she’ll be in a highly-aroused state and ready for more pleasure.
Be careful not to wear her out first, though. As I pointed out above, anal takes a little bit of time.
Stimulating her clitoris or vagina with your tongue, mouth and/or fingers while working her butthole into the mix is a great way to lead up to anal.
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Try rimming her with your tongue while manipulating her clitoris with your fingers.
Using a toy that’s designed for ass play — or a small pocket rocket/bullet vibrator — while stimulating her nipples, clitoris or vagina is another way to get her bottom in the mood for penetration. In fact, there are butt plugs out there in graduating sizes that can help you to prepare her ass for penetration over time.
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<h3>7) Start with a finger or two…</h3>
… again, is another way to prep your partner’s patooty for penetration. It’s important to remember that the key nerve endings are in and around the anus and not way up inside.
This is why rimming can be so pleasurable. So when you’re preparing to penetrate, just use the tip of everything or you risk causing her the sensation of having to poop without any of the mitigating pleasure.
In fact, early on in your anal sex exploration, you may not even want to penetrate beyond the head of your penis.
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This will help maximize the pleasure and minimize some of the discomfort associated with anal sex, which is more associated with deeper penetration.
Anal sex takes preparation and patience. You can’t rush it or you risk the backdoor being forever off limits.
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<h2>The Absolute Best Positions For Amazing Anal Sex</h2>
The best positions for anal sex are those that allow you both to be as comfortable as possible during the entire experience.
There are literally dozens of positions out there, more than can possibly be listed here.
The “rear entry” position is a good starter pose and is generally considered one of the best anal sex positions.
In the rear entry position, she lies on her stomach, supporting herself gently with her elbows.
She will spread her legs and bend them at the knees. Then you lay between her legs and ease your penis inside.
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Another of the best positions for anal sex is the “Burning Man” position. This is an awesome position because you can both get a lot of leverage.
She bends over something like a table, counter or sofa — something that will allow you to penetrate her ass while standing — and spreads her legs. You stand behind her and enter, while supporting and pulling her hips toward you.
Finally, the “leapfrog” is also generally considered one of the best anal sex positions. Your partner kneels and bends forward, arching her back with her arms forward on the ground.
This position presents her ass to you for easy penetration by kneeling behind her. However, take some time to research what’s out there and find a position that works well for both of you.
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There are many reasons that anal sex feels so good.
First, it’s tighter.
Because the muscles around the anus are so tight–and the muscles just inside are designed to squeeze and push out what’s inside–your penis is squeezed much more tightly at all times during anal sex than vaginal sex.
It’s also a more uniform squeezing that you will feel along the entire length of the area that’s inside your partner’s ass.
Anal sex also creates more friction.
The tight sphincter muscles of the anus create a tremendous amount of friction as your penis eases back and forth — even with a lot of lube.
There’s also something very satisfying about the sense of sexual dominance that anal penetration creates. If you are in a dominant/submissive relationship — and you’re the dominant one — anal sex can be incredibly pleasurable for both of you because of the dom/sub dynamic it can create.
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<h2>2 Things You Absolutely MUST Do When You Try Anal Sex…</h2>
There are two things that absolutely cannot be disposed of when it comes to anal sex:
Condoms and cleanliness.
Hygiene is a crucial component of any good anal experience.
First, yes–you have to wear a condom. It doesn’t matter how well you know your partner or how long you’ve been together.
As good as your penis feels in her ass, they were not made to be that way. There may be things on your penis that will be bad for her to have in that area.
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And you certainly do not want fecal matter to get into the tip of your penis. There is potential for infection all around.
If you are switching between vaginal and anal or vice versa, do not use the same condom. Wipe down your penis and switch condoms in between.
Keeping baby wipes close at hand during anal sex is a really good idea. Always be prepared to wipe her as you pull out of her ass, just in case.
The good news is that the anus and lower rectum are not as full of *stuff* as we may think. In truth, there is usually very little in this area.
But one way to ensure that it is squeaky clean is to use an enema before having anal sex. This will clear out any lingering things and get her ready for pleasurable and worry-free anal sex.
If an enema is not an option, a pH-neutral soap or cleanser — designed for the daintier parts of the body — can help clean and prep the area. Wash the outside and the first couple inches of the rectum with a finger; you could even assist her with this.
(Keeping the area around the butthole shaved is another good idea.)
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<h2>Anal Sex Has Its Rewards for Women, Too…</h2>
Anal isn’t all about the men’s pleasure — that would be boring.
Women who love it attest to the benefits of anal sex.
Women can have an orgasm from anal sex and no other stimulation. And if they have an orgasm during anal, they will be far more likely to want to try it again.
But why put all your eggs in one basket?
During anal sex, finger her nipples and use a hand or vibrator to stimulate her clitoris or vagina.
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While an orgasm for anal penetration is possible, it is more likely to be a key component in a mind-blowing vaginal or clitoral orgasm than the cause of a stand-alone climax.
And that’s a key benefit of anal sex for women:
It’s an orgasm enhancer.
Finally, another benefit of anal sex is that it builds intimacy in the relationship. There is a lot of trust that goes into the act of anal penetration.
Which means that if you can use anal sex to enhance her orgasm… AND build intimacy with her… then you’re pretty much going to get her hooked on you.
Here’s my personal favorite way to enhance a woman’s anal experience, and give her the kind of mind-blowing orgasms that get her totally hooked:
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When done right, anal sex can unleash the kind of pleasure that a woman has never felt before…
As a matter of fact, there’s one technique that I use DURING anal, that drives women absolutely insane with pleasure.
It’s called the <a href=”https://gothamclub.com/5-finger-tantra/?post=12252021a-bl” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>“5-Finger Tantra Technique,”</a> and it’s the fastest & easiest way I know to give a woman multiple orgasms during anal…
… though I have to warn you… you MUST be careful when you use it.
Women become very attached to men who can make them come… and utterly obsessed with men who can give them <a href=”https://gothamclub.com/5-finger-tantra/?post=12252021a-bl” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>extreme orgasms like this.</a>
I’m talking about intense, whole body, toe-curling, multiple, squirting orgasms…
She’ll get hooked on you like a bad addiction if you pull this off right. 😉
But I’ll be honest, I didn’t make this up… I first learned it from this video by Tantric Guru, Lawrence Lanoff:
<a href=”https://gothamclub.com/5-finger-tantra/?post=12252021a-bl” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>Click Here to Discover the 5-Finger Tantra Technique That Gives Her INSANE Multiple Orgasms [VIDEO]…</a>
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<h2>The #1 Reason Some Women LOVE Anal (& Others Don’t)…</h2>
At the end of the anal day, there are two big reasons that prevent women from experimenting with anal:
1) Personal preference… and:
2) Culture.
Some women are very open-minded, so they try anal once–and they love it.
These are the women who will openly suggest that you try it, and they won’t hesitate to experiment with it.
However, some women who have tried it don’t enjoy it. And that’s not necessarily a bad thing!
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It doesn’t mean she’s “uptight”–it just means that it doesn’t really do much for her sexually.
(But more on that in a minute.)
Culture also plays a big part in a woman’s interest in anal sex.
Because so much of our culture makes “backdoor” action seem “gross” or unsanitary, it’s easy for a woman to completely take it off of the table.
However, the truth is… anal sex is not unsanitary. And it’s not inherently “gross”–if you approach it the right way.
So with that in mind, here’s one key move you can use to make sure your first experience with anal sex is a good one:
<figure id=”attachment_6266″ aria-describedby=”caption-attachment-6266″ class=”wp-caption alignnone”><a href=”https://gothamclub.com/3-types-orgasms-5gm/?post=indigo611092019a” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”><img class=”wp-image-6266 size-full” src=”https://gothamclub.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/how-many-women-are-into-anal-2.jpeg” alt=”how many women are into anal” width=”800″ height=”511″ srcset=”https://gothamclub.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/how-many-women-are-into-anal-2.jpeg 800w, https://gothamclub.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/how-many-women-are-into-anal-2-300×192.jpeg 300w, https://gothamclub.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/how-many-women-are-into-anal-2-768×491.jpeg 768w” sizes=”(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px”></a><figcaption id=”caption-attachment-6266″ class=”wp-caption-text”>Most guys can’t hit a woman’s “Deep Spot” during regular sex because it’s so far in… but if you do THIS during anal you can easily hit it. Here’s how…</figcaption></figure><h2>Use This Technique to Hit Her “Deep Spot” For MAX Pleasure During Anal…</h2>
Like I mentioned above, some women can only orgasm from anal sex… and that’s because of one big reason:
If you use the right angle when you penetrate her… you can easily hit her <a href=”https://gothamclub.com/5-finger-tantra/?post=12252021a-bl” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>“Deep Spot.”</a>
Yeah, it’s kinda like the G-Spot… but it’s deeper inside her… which makes it way more sensitive.
And for a woman, more sensitivity = <a href=”https://gothamclub.com/5-finger-tantra/?post=12252021a-bl” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>more powerful orgasms!!!</a>
(Note: This also explains why some women become “addicted” anal sex… even if they were initially hesitant.)
However, you can’t just “put it in” back there & hope you’ll hit her “Deep Spot”… there’s a little technique involved.
I mean it isn’t hard to do… though I had to watch <a href=”https://gothamclub.com/3-types-orgasms-5gm/?post=12252021a” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>this video</a> before I fully understood it.
It shows you where her “Deep Spot” is… how to find it (during regular OR anal sex)… and why this keeps her coming back for repeat sex with you, pretty much whenever you want:
<a href=”https://gothamclub.com/3-types-orgasms-5gm/?post=12252021a” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>Watch this video to discover how to give a woman a MEGA-powerful “Deep Spot” Orgasm.</a>
[Note: This post was updated by Gotham Club on November 9, 2019.]
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Sat, 25 Dec 2021 06:00:00 -0800 Glenn Pearce
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UNCENSORED: 5 Steps to Kiss Any Woman Into a Mind-Blowing Orgasm (AKA “Orgasmic Kissing”) https://gothamclub.com/orgasmic-kissing/
https://gothamclub.com/?p=11592
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Hey, this is another episode of Ask Ruwando.
And today I’m going to show you my 5 tips for “orgasmic kissing.”
So these tips actually apply to a lot of things you do with your mouth–any sort of kissing.
I’m talking about kissing mouths, or kissing body parts.
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And I think it’s so critical, because kissing is obviously an intimate part of sex and communication. 
But it’s also one of the most sensitive ways to touch someone. It’s one of the most potentially romantic and one of the most arousing. 
So here are five tips that should help any guy become a much better kisser:
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<h2>Catch The Full Video Transcript Below…</h2>
The first tip is to pay attention to <a href=”https://gothamclub.com/how-to-be-a-good-kisser/” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>what feels good to your lips. </a>
A lot of guys forget about this. 
They become very focused on making her have a good time or having the woman think that they’re a good kisser… and like, that’s great. 
I mean, it’s great that you care about what a woman thinks about a woman’s experience. 
But if you are completely in your head and trying to figure out what’s good for her and not feeling what feels good to you… there’s no way you’re going to connect, right? 
A lot of guys forget that when you kiss someone, she’s kissing you as much as you’re kissing her.
It’s important that you enjoy it. 
For example, if you’ve ever been a woman who’s going down on you or giving something to you, and she’s clearly not enjoying it–she’s just doing it for your pleasure–it doesn’t feel as good. 
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But if you’re with a woman who’s (let’s just use oral sex as an example) loves going down on you, it’s going to be a good time. 
It’s way more pleasurable for you, if you ever had any of those kinds of experiences, you know what I’m talking about. 
So same thing applies to anything sexual, even kissing. It’s important that you notice what feels good to you. 
Because if you’re doing it for her, she’s not going to feel like she’s kissing a person.
She’s going to feel like she’s with some robot that’s trying to pleasure her, and that’s not very sexy. 
So when you start kissing someone, pay attention to the speed, the pressure, the location–and the very first thing you need to think about is what actually feels good to your lips. 
It might not necessarily be what feels good to her lips also… though hopefully they kind of are the same thing. 
But if you’re not aware of what feels good to you, there’s no way you guys are going to sync up. 
This brings us to step two…
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<h2>2) “Listen” With Your Lips</h2>
You want to use your lips to feel for feedback. 
So you also have to remember your lips have tons of nerve endings. 
This is why they feel good. 
They are sensory receptors, they can give you a lot of feedback on what feels good to her. 
You don’t need to be a mind reader to recognize what she’s enjoying something or not.
Very simply, if you’re doing something and she’s leaning into you, she’s getting softer, she’s being more into it… she probably is into you doing that. 
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If she’s tightening up, she’s pulling back, she seems not into it… then maybe that’s not a thing she’s into. 
It can be that simple as sexual intuition–doesn’t have to be more complicated than that. 
Every moment you want to pay attention to the feedback from her of what feels good. 
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<h2>3) Kiss With Your Whole Body</h2>
The next tip is to <a href=”https://gothamclub.com/best-way-to-get-her-to-kiss-you/” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>kiss with your whole body. </a>
A lot of guys, when they’re kissing, they only focus on what’s going on with their mouth and they don’t realize that their body is doing something awkward or they’re leaning over. 
I’ve seen this on first dates when I watch people, and guys are doing these weird things with their body 
You should be touching, you should be in a comfortable position, you should be holding her–that’s a lot of what’s going to make it feel good for her. 
It’s not just what’s going on in her mouth. It’s your hand on her neck, around her body or touching her hair–whatever. 
Again, you don’t need to plan things. 
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In fact, you shouldn’t plan things–you should be aware of your body and her body, and your body will find the right thing. 
You basically want to find what’s most comfortable to your bodies while you’re kissing. 
That’s what’s going to lead to the most pleasure because you’re not kissing with just your lips. 
Kissing is a whole body experience where you have to be making lip-to-lip contacts. 
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<h2>4) Switch Up Your Speed, Pressure & Location Like THIS…</h2>
The next step is maybe the most obvious, but I wanted to lay down those three principles beforehand–which is to vary what’s what’s going on with speed, pressure and location. 
Now, if you’re doing it from your head it’s not going to feel good. 
That’s why you have to pay attention to what feels good to you. 
If you follow the first three principles, the variants will probably lead to what actually is going to be most resonant between the two of you. 
You want to test things, right?
You might want to try playing with different speeds. Maybe try a different tempo…
Kissing the upper lip, the bottom lip, and outside of the mouth…
You know, some of the most sensitive areas on someone you’re not going to be able to predetermine.
(Although some areas are common–ears tend to be extra sensitive. Studies show touching these 3 “innocent-seeming” spots on a woman can also turn her on REALLY fast… <a href=”https://gothamclub.com/3-shocking-touches/?post=minicta12242021a” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>click here to see what they are</a>.)
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It’s different for every woman. 
You’re going to find this by exploring and being curious and again, paying attention to sensory feedback. 
So don’t just try to kiss in one way.
In fact, with every woman that the way that you lock lips is going to be different. 
I mean, you have to pay attention and notice and explore and see what is the way that’s going to feel best between the two of you. 
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<h2>5) Escalate With Tempo</h2>
The fifth tip for orgasmic kissing is to escalate with tempo. 
Tempo, just like music, is the rhythm of what’s going on. 
One of the biggest complaints I hear from women is that guys rush into it–they go too fast, use too much tongue, and use too much saliva. 
A lot of guys I think probably stick their tongue out right away, because they remember the highest sensation kisses they had.
But you have to listen to the tempo. 
Almost always with anything sexual, it’s better to err on the side of gentle or slow.
Because if you’re a little too gentle, a little too slow, she’s probably going to jump your bones because she’s going to want to close that distance. 
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But if you go too hard, too fast–like if you stick your tongue in her mouth too soon, or if you use too much saliva early before she’s aroused to that level–she might close off or pull back.
And you don’t ever want a woman pulling back from you, it’s just a bad thing to have in her mind.
Because it’s gonna be harder for her to open up to you later. 
So you want to escalate with tempo. 
And if you’re not sure what the rhythm is in a given moment, go on the side of being slow, being gentle, because sometimes you actually need to give her the space to feel her desire. 
So she’s going to come to you to even if you’re leading the interaction.
And once she does come to you… and things are escalating beyond kissing, to the next level…
Here’s how to REALLY blow her mind:
<figure class=”wp-block-image”><a href=”https://gothamclub.com/5-finger-tantra/?post=indigo111082019a”><img width=”798″ height=”533″ src=”https://gothamclub.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/orgasmic-kissing.jpg” alt=”orgasmic kissing” class=”wp-image-11593″ srcset=”https://gothamclub.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/orgasmic-kissing.jpg 798w, https://gothamclub.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/orgasmic-kissing-300×200.jpg 300w, https://gothamclub.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/orgasmic-kissing-768×513.jpg 768w, https://gothamclub.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/orgasmic-kissing-272×182.jpg 272w” sizes=”(max-width: 798px) 100vw, 798px”></a><figcaption>If you want to go beyond “orgasmic kissing” and blow her mind in bed… check out the revolutionary tantric technique below:</figcaption></figure><h2>Want To KEEP Blowing Her Mind?</h2>
After you’ve tried some “orgasmic kissing” and proved its effectiveness… then there’s a way to take it a few levels higher…
<a href=”https://gothamclub.com/5-finger-tantra/?post=12242021a-bl” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>It’s with a technique called “5 Finger Tantra,” and the last woman I used it on came so hard she temporarily lost her ability to speak.</a>
This is my favorite move… it’s done WONDERS for my dating life.
For example… a few months back I went on a tinder date where I ended up using the 5 Finger Tantra on her.
She came so hard she almost fell out of my bed… because <a href=”https://gothamclub.com/5-finger-tantra/?post=12242021a” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>she completely lost control and couldn’t stop convulsing from all the pleasure.</a>
After a very lengthy session of fingering, oral, and sex… we lay snuggling in bed and just talked.
I discovered she’s looking for a serious relationship, and I was not…
I let her down gently… she understood, and there weren’t any hard feelings, we both enjoyed each other’s time and company… but we just wanted different things.
I’ve barely heard from her in WEEKS!
She didn’t initiate the conversation since then… she gave me very short one-word answers when I messaged her… and after a week or so I just stopped trying.
But last night she messages me for the first time in a while and says:
“I know you’re not looking for anything serious, and I am… but a girl has needs, and <a href=”https://gothamclub.com/5-finger-tantra/?post=12242021a” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>what you did with your fingers was magical.</a> Do you want to meet for a drink?”
There were no drinks, she just showed up to my place in a short red dress with no underwear on underneath…
And well… you can guess what happened after that:
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3 Secret Advantages of Talking to Women Who Aren’t “Your Type” (And How It Gets Hot “Out Of Your League” Women to Approach YOU) https://gothamclub.com/talking-to-women/
https://gothamclub.com/?p=11589
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Today I’m going to show you how interacting with women–even if they aren’t your “ideal woman”–will eventually get the women YOU want in bed, using very little effort.
Because as a dating coach, I meet a lot of guys who will simply end an interaction because the woman isn’t “right” for him.
And while I understand this behavior… in reality, it’s self-sabotaging at its core.
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This is especially true if you want to get laid on a regular, or even somewhat regular basis.
After all, you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.
(And to add insult to injury, <a href=”https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/first-blush/202112/the-many-subtle-ways-women-signal-romantic-interest” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>studies</a> consistently show men miss many of the signals women give off to show they’re interested.)
Still think talking to women who aren’t “your type” is always a waste of time?
I’ll show you the truth below, including how interacting with more women will get hotter girls to approach you effortlessly:
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<h2>How Watching a Man Catch a Shark at Coney Island Revealed the Truth About Attracting Super-Hot Girls…</h2>
Once, at Coney Island, right where we hang out on the beach, a fellow went out on the pier with a fishing rod.
Sunbathers watched as he put his line in the water in the hot sun and waited.
After a short while he moved his shoulders and you could see him pulling, until he pulled something up. A little thing–a guppy or whatever.
After fiddling with the line for a bit he had clearly sunk that hook–or another, larger one–into this little fish, because he threw it back in, blood and line and all.
Soon his quiet vigilance was broken again as he pulled another thing–something larger–up out of the water. 
He fiddled with hook and line and put that back into the water, too.
This scene repeated a third time and a fourth time. 
The fish was getting bigger now and I wondered if that skinny rod could take much more of this.
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His shoulders jerked into action again, but this time people on the beach stood up talking and gesturing to the water.
You could see the dorsal fin, this was a shark. 
This time the struggle was clearly more difficult as he didn’t try pulling the fish up out of the water, but walked his rod back up the pier to the beach.
Keeping the fish in front of him now he slowly reeled and pulled and waited and fought and reeled and pulled.
Finally he landed it, dragging it up on the beach.
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<h2>3 Ways Interacting With Women Who Aren’t Your Type Gets Girls Who ARE Your Type to Approach you…</h2>
Probably his story about catching a shark will sound like luck, but from where I saw it, it was predictable. 
He had thrown several bloody, live fish into that water in roughly the same spot, and his line was hooked to a fresh, live, bloody fish right now.
When you go out–and when I take guys out for a night session–it can seem sensible to avoid the girls who are not your type.
I’m all for that, if your movement away from the undesirable coincides with a move toward the girl who is your ideal.
What is far more common is that you tell me you don’t want to talk to that girl because she’s not your type–and maybe that’s true–but you’re also avoiding the fear of opening your mouth and risking rejection.
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When I point out the girl who is exactly the type you like, you have a reason not to approach her, too–or you try to tell me she’s not, in fact, one of the small, friendly, flat-chested blondes with a nice a** that she certainly is, and that I’ve already confirmed you go nuts for.
Don’t pull your rod away from the little fish AND away from the big fish! 
What do you want to catch? A shoe?
Instead of putting your rod in the water and trying to move your bait away from the smaller fish, <a href=”https://gothamclub.com/ss-5-texts” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>let them creep up!</a>
There are several advantages to holding on to the girls who you want to throw back.
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<h2>1) You Can Visualize Success Easier</h2>
As we all know, seeing yourself in the situation you want to be in helps you believe that it’s possible, and helps it become inevitable, because your internal system moves you toward that scene.
Even imagining the desired scene can help you recreate it…
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How much closer do you think you’d get to that scene by actually being in it?
Yeah some of the elements are not perfect–perhaps she doesn’t fit the concept of “your type” of woman you have in your head.
But you can help your guidance system a great deal by seeing the scenario and being part of it–with the lights, the other people, the logistics, your voice and her predictable responses.
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<h2>2) Perfect Practice Makes Perfect</h2>
You can tell, more importantly, whether you are controlling the conversation or not with your words. 
You know if you are getting information from her about who she is and what she wants.
(By the way, if you want an easy way to tell if a girl you’re talking to is interested in you…<a href=”https://gothamclub.com/7-hidden-signs-she-likes-you/” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener”> just look for these 7 signals that fly right over most men’s heads.</a>)
Despite less-than-stellar looks, this girl you don’t want has two ears and a brain.
I’m not saying she’s smarter than the hotter ones, mind you. I’m saying that she listens like a girl and she thinks like a girl. 
More to the point, <a href=”https://gothamclub.com/how-to-talk-to-hot-girls/” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>the game is almost the same.</a>
While it’s true that she might be interested in you right off the bat, and maybe you don’t have as much competition for her time, when it comes to finding out who she is and what lights her up, it’s exactly the same conversation.
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You can try out ways of asking questions and responding to her statements.
You can find out what happens when you say certain things, and how quickly a negative or even undirected comment can derail all the work you’ve been doing.
You can come up with the way you like to sit (probably back to the bar like me, but maybe you come up with your own way) and the little reactions you make to things she says.
There are tons more reasons to not throw back the little fish until something else is on your line, but the two that follow are probably the best.
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<h2>3) “It Takes One to Know One”</h2>
Believe it or not, the women you actually prefer KNOW how alike women are. 
Not only that, while you might completely ignore the less attractive fish, the women you are interested do not. 
(And remember that less attractive is a subjective description. I have a friend who is completely unattracted to women I and our other buddies are drooling over. Of course, those women are drawn to him like flies to fly paper.)
They see that girl laughing at your jokes and touching your arm. 
They see, in other words, her interest in you and all the fun she’s having and they DON’T think what you would:
 “I guess he’s desparate, ‘cause she is a DOG!”
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Instead they think:
“Why is SHE having so much fun [she’s laughing and smiling and throwing her head back] and I’m not??”
“Why is she so interested in that guy??” [She’s touching your arm, which to a woman looks like she’s into YOU and TRYING to get you interested.]
“I’m at LEAST as attractive as her? Why is NO ONE talking to me?? Even that guy who women like, why does he prefer HER to ME???”
You might ALSO find it a little easier to START your night talking to the less attractive girls, although the motivation is lower.
And as you warm up, and talk to the hotter tamales, you’ll find those appetizers could improve your reception… like knowing the secretary of the big shot you want to get a meeting with, for example.
That’s especially true if you add this proven escalation technique to your conversation:
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It’s no secret why men go to bars and clubs when getting drunk at home is 10 times cheaper… we want to meet women and get laid.
So when you DO find a woman you’d actually like to take home with you…
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In my experience you HAVE to get some touch going with a girl if you want to get her into bed quickly.
BUT… I have to admit… touching has gone south a few times for me in the past.
There have been times when I’d touch too much… or in the wrong places… and the woman would nervously pull away like I just farted in her direction.
<a href=”https://gothamclub.com/3-shocking-touches/?post=12232021a” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>That’s why these 3 Shocking Touches are so effective.</a>
They escalate the interaction without making you look desperate, awkward, or creepy.
And because these touches actually seem pretty innocent… they give you an air of playfulness, which helps women open up… and be more willing to let you get physical.
When done right these touches can easily transform a regular friendly conversation… to a flirty one.
When that happens you’ll notice her getting touchy with you too.
Next thing you know you’re kissing in an alley with a handful of her booty… while she whispers dirty things in your ear, and begs you to nail her.
But it all starts with some simple touching…
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If you’ve never talked dirty to a girl in bed, man, now is the time to try.
In my experience, <a href=”https://gothamclub.com/dirty-talk-women-love/” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>dirty talk</a> is one of the easiest ways to have more fun with sex, and to get a girl to really open up to you.
I’m talking about making girls spill their deepest sexual desires…
Getting her to experiment with kinky or rough sex…
And ultimately, giving her the kind of pleasure that keeps her coming back to you for sex again & again.
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But when it comes to dirty talk, where do you start?
That’s what I’m going to show you today.
Hi, I’m Glenn Pearce, and as part of my new series, Ask Glenn, I’m answering your most difficult, burning questions related to sex and dating.
And today, I want to show you the easiest way to use dirty talk to turn hot girls on, and give them more orgasms in bed—it’s a method that works really well for both myself and my older clients, and I’m confident it can work for you as well.
Because after all, the science backs me up!
A <a href=”https://www.medicaldaily.com/science-dirty-talk-and-why-it-increases-sexual-pleasure-349854″ target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>study</a> published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships in 2012 found that people who are more comfortable talking about sex literally have better and more satisfying sex.
Dirty talk is part of this.
So today, I’m answering this common seduction question guys ask me all the time:
“What’s the best way to start talking dirty to a woman, and how can you use dirty talk to have hotter sex?”
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Hey, it’s Glenn and I’m here to help ease your concerns and fears about talking dirty with women, or possibly feeling some embarrassment while talking dirty to her.
I think it’s absolutely imperative that every man starts incorporating <a href=”https://gothamclub.com/how-to-talk-dirty-to-a-woman/” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>dirty talk with women</a>. Now, there are levels of dirty talk.
There’s like, “Hey, you dirty f**king whore. You’re my sl*t c*m pig and you’re gonna f**king love it.”
Then there’s like, “Oh, do you like it when I slap your a**?” or like, “Oh, tell me how good my d**k tastes.”
There are different levels, OK?
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<h2 id=”h-the-3-levels-of-dirty-talk-when-to-use-them”>The 3 Levels of Dirty Talk & When to Use Them…</h2>
For most guys who don’t know what to say, or have a little bit of fear about dirty talk, just think of it as like a ladder.
That first step might look a little something like:
“Oh my god, you smell really good and your nipples taste really good.” Or, “Oh, does it feel good when I finger you like this?”
You could start asking very basic, generic, simple questions.
Like, “How good does my d**k feel in your hands?” Or, “Do you like it when I nibble on your ear? Tell me you like it when I nibble you on your ear.”
(Note: You can also incorporate this into your text game, especially when you want a woman to come over and hookup with you. <a href=”https://gothamclub.com/ss-5-texts/?post=minicta12222021a” target=”_blank” rel=”noreferrer noopener”>Click here to see 5 “copy & paste” texts that almost always get hot girls to come over straight for sex.</a>)
If you’re having sex and she’s about to orgasm, and she starts saying your name like, “Glenn”…
You can say, “You know, say my name a little louder. This time look at me in the eyes when you say my name.”
Then you could take it a little further and be like:
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“Yeah, do you like it when I do that? Do you like saying my name? Tell me you f**king love saying my name. Tell me you love my f**king fingers in your wet little pussy,” and you could just start taking it a little bit further.
I don’t think it’s a good idea necessarily to go from A to Z in one shot.
So if you’re scared of flying, I wouldn’t recommend taking a 20-hour plane flight. I would say go take a half-hour plane flight or go up in a little propeller plane and slowly work your way over the fear of flying.
Same thing with <a href=”https://gothamclub.com/dirty-talk-lines/” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>dirty talk</a>. Start slow, start easy.
You don’t need a list of lines or whatever. Just start saying little things and watch her response, because you’re going to be surprised at how well girls respond to it.
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<h2 id=”h-2-easy-ways-to-make-dirty-talk-even-hotter-most-girls-secretly-crave-this”>2 Easy Ways to Make Dirty Talk Even Hotter (Most Girls Secretly Crave This)…</h2>
Biting and spanking are two of my favorite things–and they can also enhance dirty talk, and make it hotter for both of you.
They’re absolute turn-ons. They’re turn-ons for me personally, because I like getting bitten.
And I’ve been spanked before, and I like being spanked–and they’re turn-ons for women.
Women love being bitten. Women love being spanked. There are levels with that too.
There’s nibbling, which is light biting. And then there’s light spanking…
And then there’s biting, and then there’s spanking really hard.
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Some women like it really soft and they don’t like it really hard. Some women like it really hard and they don’t like it really soft.
What you should start doing is, you know, next time you’re with your chosen partner, start nibbling on her neck–maybe nibbling on her ear, maybe nibbling on her nipple, maybe lightly nibbling on her clit.
And then gauge her response.
If she’s getting into it you could ask her, “Do you like that?”
She’ll probably say, “yes.”
Then you could say, “Do you want me to do it harder?” She’ll say, “Yes.”
In my experience, most girls will tell you to do it harder. They’ll let you know if you’re not doing it hard enough.
Same thing when it comes to spanking.
<h2 id=”h-the-bizarre-reason-why-hot-girls-are-hardwired-to-crave-dirty-talk-rough-sex”>The Bizarre Reason Why Hot Girls Are Hardwired to Crave Dirty Talk & Rough Sex…</h2>
Almost every girl loves to be submissive.
They’re pretty much biologically hardwired to be submissive to the man.
Spanking a woman is a form of her being submissive to the man. And that’s why most girls love biting and spanking–along with rougher sex (but more on that in a sec).
Spanking can start when you’re just laying in bed, and you’re kind of making out with her, and you’re on your side.
You could just start lightly spanking her a**. What I like to do is I like to, when I’m on top of a woman, I’ll spread her legs and I’ll say, “spread your legs.”
She’ll spread her legs and I’ll look at her eyes, and I’ll start spanking her p***y. Lightly at first, and then I’ll gauge her responses.
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Women love to be spanked and they’ll tell you once again, “harder, harder, harder.”
If they don’t tell you harder, have some fun with it, start smacking her harder, and gauge her response.
After sex, you could always say:
“Hey, was that too hard? I know I kinda gave you a couple of good ones there.” And she’ll be like, “No, I actually f**king loved it, it was hot.”
So biting and spanking are things you could add to your preexisting sex life that maybe you haven’t, that will just make it more fulfilling and enjoyable for you and for her.
Here’s how:
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Here’s a fact…
Most women DON’T like vanilla sex.
<a href=”https://gothamclub.com/3-rough-moves-she-craves/?post=12222021a-bl” target=”_blank” rel=”noreferrer noopener”>A recent poll of 1,580 women found that nearly 95% enjoy spanking during sex…</a>
… and a full 70% of women said they wished their partner did it more.
That’s why so many hot girls (especially college-aged girls) get WILDLY turned on by this kind of X-rated dirty talk.
Most women <a href=”https://gothamclub.com/3-rough-moves-she-craves/?post=12052020a” target=”_blank” rel=”noreferrer noopener”>like it a little rough…</a> they’re curious about kinky s*it…
But there’s only one problem:
Even when a woman is down to try stuff like spanking… <a href=”https://gothamclub.com/3-rough-moves-she-craves/?post=12222021a” target=”_blank” rel=”noreferrer noopener”>choking… </a>and getting tied up… you can bet your left testicle she won’t ask you for it.
Most women will never ask a man to take things up a notch in the bedroom, because they’re terrified of seeming slutty.
So if you want to unleash a hot girl’s naughtier side, without making it a whole “conversation”…
In my experience, the best way is to “ease” her into it, using a few<a href=”https://gothamclub.com/3-rough-moves-she-craves/?post=12222021a” target=”_blank” rel=”noreferrer noopener”> rough sex moves</a> that practically ALL women love…
(And that can get her to open up about even kinkier s*it she wants to try..)
Including my personal favorite move, the “S&M Spank,” which you can see how to do right here:
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<h2 id=”h-my-3-step-sexual-communication-system-to-ease-any-woman-into-rougher-kinkier-sex”>My 3-Step Sexual Communication System to Ease ANY Woman Into Rougher & Kinkier Sex…</h2>
Let’s break communication down into 3 different parts–I call this my 3-step Sexual Communication System:
1) Speaking ideas and then making sure that you are understood…
2) Making sure that the woman you’re talking to is also understood…
3) Sharing a complex idea and being able to walk away from your conversation mutually satisfied.
So how do you make sure all 3 of those steps are covered?
Basically, you communicate an idea and then you stop and you listen.
Listen to yourself and to the woman you’re with–these two actions are super powerful.
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In fact, I had one of these discussions last night, and it was just like I said:
“Hey, I really need to say this to you.”
I took a deep breath and then I said it.
Then, I stopped and I said, 
“How do you feel about that?” 
Then, she spoke, and I listened to that. 
Then, I shared some more.
It left us both feeling like we were understood and smart and connected, and that really is the point of communication. 
It’s not so much content and words, but the way in which you communicate–and that is the ability to listen empathetically.
And like anything in life, this kind of communication takes practice.
But when done consistently, it can deepen your sexual connection… and lead to better sex in the long run as well.
Don’t believe me?
Just check this out:
<h2 id=”h-can-a-little-empathy-lead-to-mind-blowing-sex”>Can A Little Empathy Lead to Mind-Blowing Sex?</h2>
I think most men can agree, it’s almost like a badge of honor when you make a woman come.
Personally, I get an even bigger sense of accomplishment if I<a href=”https://gothamclub.com/3-types-orgasms-5gm/?post=cta12222021a”> give her multiple orgasms, or a powerful squirting orgasm.</a>
And over the years, I’ve discovered (and many community members agree) that when it comes down to it…
There are really only two factors you need to keep in mind if you want to give a woman a life-changing orgasm:
1) Empathy
I’m sure you’ve heard this before, but for a woman,<a href=”https://gothamclub.com/3-types-orgasms-5gm/?post=cta12222021a”>an orgasm is much more mental than it is physical.</a>
When you listen to her needs and desires… and try to understand her… she will feel more comfortable around you.
And the more comfortable she feels around you, the more she’s willing to “let go” when she’s in bed with you.
To sum it up, get to know & understand a woman before sleeping with her for better results.
2) Stimulating The Right Spots
Just being empathetic and getting her to feel comfortable around you WILL make sex a lot more enjoyable for her…
… but it’s not going to give her the<a href=”https://gothamclub.com/3-types-orgasms-5gm/?post=12222021a” target=”_blank” rel=”noreferrer noopener”> kinds of orgasms that’ll make her forget her </a><a href=”https://gothamclub.com/3-types-orgasms-5gm/?post=cta12052020a” target=”_blank” rel=”noreferrer noopener”>name</a><a rel=”noreferrer noopener” href=”https://gothamclub.com/3-types-orgasms-5gm/?post=11062019a” target=”_blank”>.</a>
That’s why you have to stimulate the “right” spots… and there are 3 spots in particular that are proven to give women the MAXIMUM level of pleasure:
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<figure class=”wp-block-image”><a href=”https://gothamclub.com/3-rough-moves-she-craves//?post=indigo111052019a”><img width=”799″ height=”533″ src=”https://gothamclub.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/bdsm-facts-1.jpg” alt=”bdsm facts” class=”wp-image-11581″ srcset=”https://gothamclub.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/bdsm-facts-1.jpg 799w, https://gothamclub.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/bdsm-facts-1-300×200.jpg 300w, https://gothamclub.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/bdsm-facts-1-768×512.jpg 768w, https://gothamclub.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/bdsm-facts-1-272×182.jpg 272w” sizes=”(max-width: 799px) 100vw, 799px”></a><figcaption>Did you know studies show dabbling in BDSM can stimulate you physically AND mentally? Discover the surprising details below…</figcaption></figure>
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One of the most surprising benefits of practicing BDSM and otherwise kinky sex is that it may potentially make you more well-rounded, better at communicating, and potentially even smarter.
And according to some men, it even doubles as a form of <a href=”https://nypost.com/2021/12/21/these-dominatrixes-double-as-therapists/” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener”>therapy</a>.
So today, I’m going to delve into why kinky sex is so good for you, and how any person can use BDSM and kinky sex for enhanced physical and mental stimulation.
The reality is, if you aren’t a regular practitioner of BDSM, then odds are you might have some questions about it.
Which makes sense, because yes–BDSM is a very curious thing.
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To those with no experience with BDSM, it may look very strange, and even practitioners may wonder why they’re aroused by such things. 
(For example, even though there is still limited accurate data surrounding BDSM, the Kinsey Institute <a href=”https://kinseyinstitute.org/research/faq.php” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>reports</a> 55% of women respond sexually to being bitten.)
But there’s another dimension to BDSM, one that’s being increasingly discussed: the therapeutic aspect.
So what does this mean for your sex life? How can you incorporate BDSM into your bedroom?
And how can BDSM benefit you outside of the bedroom?
I’ll show you below:
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<h2>The Vulnerability and Emotional Bonding of BDSM…</h2>
The reality is, all sexual activity involves psychology to some degree.
As they say, the most powerful sex organ is the brain. 
BDSM, though, is much more rooted in psychology than other sexual practices. 
This is due to the prescribed roles and bond created between both participants. 
And this might help explain the fact that many dominatrices are now finding themselves playing the role of “therapist” to their clients.
This new hybrid profession can help clients with anything from relaxation to achieving life goals. 
Most people think of BDSM simply as activities involving pain and humiliation, but there’s a lot more going on beneath the surface. 
It seems obvious, but it’s rarely stated in clear terms: 
Seeing a dominatrix makes a person vulnerable. 
The implications of this aren’t often discussed. 
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Clients open themselves on not just a physical level, but also an emotional one. The person visiting a dominatrix is, for one, revealing their deepest fantasies to them. 
Revealing fantasies they may have kept secret for a long time requires a degree of confidence in the person, and so right there a connection begins to form.
But there’s more to it than that. 
BDSM is a much more “social” kind of sexuality than normal (or, in BDSM parlance, “vanilla”) sex. 
A person allowing himself (or herself) to to be spanked or humiliated establishes a deep sense of intimacy with the person administering these “punishments.” 
Just like the famous “falling backwards” trust-building exercise, BDSM activities require a high degree of confidence in the person you’re submitting to.  
It is imperative that dominatrixes get the correct ‘tools of the trade,” and one of the easiest ways to do it is to visit an adult store in person–or even easier, <a href=”https://adultsmart.com.au/”>order them from a trusted source online.</a>
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<h2>How BDSM Relieves Stress…</h2>
It may seem odd to say that being yelled at and ordered around can relieve stress–but for certain people it can. 
Consider that, for the duration of the session, they don’t have to think about their daily troubles –all they have to do is focus on the dominatrix and complying with her orders. 
This singular focus can create a meditative, almost hypnotic state in the client, triggering the “relaxation response” discussed by Dr. Herbert Benson. 
The focus created by dominatrix sessions can be much like a person clearing their mind and concentrating on their breath or the flame of a candle while meditating.
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Many men who enjoy being dominated tend to be very “high-strung.” 
There’s an old stereotype, that many of the clientele of dominatrices are successful businessmen or bosses in their workplace, and interviews with dominatrices confirm there’s some truth to this. 
These people are busy-bodies constantly in control of what they do with their time, and so the hour-long session with a dominatrix gives them a chance to be free of responsibility. 
Ironically, being tied up can represent a mental loosening for the client.
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<h2>Here’s The Evidence That Proves BDSM Is Good For Your Brain…</h2>
The evidence actually backs up what we’re claiming here. 
Though interest in <a href=”https://gothamclub.com/what-is-kink/” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>BDSM</a> was once considered pathological, multiple studies have shown that practitioners are, in general, actually mentally healthier than those who aren’t involved. 
This makes a lot of sense if you accept the thesis that BDSM can be therapeutic.
As BDSM has come more into the spotlight with popular works such as Fifty Shades of Grey, acceptance of it–along with funding for research–has increased. 
One <a href=”https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/23679066″ target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>study</a> out of the Netherlands, published in 2013, showed practitioners of BDSM were more extroverted than people not interested in it. 
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They were also shown to be more open-minded.
Both of these make a lot of sense, as it takes a certain degree of confidence to be so vulnerable, and open-mindedness to engage in something that has been stigmatized. 
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They were also judged to be less neurotic!
A phone <a href=”https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/18331257″ target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>study</a> in Australia determined that partners who engaged in BDSM were more intimate with each other, as well as being generally happier in their relationships.
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<h2>The Rise of the Dominatrix-Therapist…</h2>
Some dominatrices, in turn, have opened themselves up more to taking on the role of therapist. It’s not uncommon to find them advertising life-coaching, in addition to their kinkier activities. 
But why would a person see a dominatrix in this capacity as opposed to a normal therapist?
Some may not be making progress in regular therapy, or just need someone to give them clear instructions on how to improve their life. 
For example, one client of a dominatrix had been going to therapy for six months prior, not really finding much help from his young therapist. 
He felt he needed motivation, someone to tell him what to do, and he found this in his new dominatrix.
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Another client felt the same therapy-fatigue. 
Instead of being suggested to take certain steps by a therapist, the dominatrix instructed him, in no unclear terms, to get a day planner and start structuring his activities. 
The client felt relief that someone was finally just telling him what to do and he was going for it. 
As opposed to a regular therapist, a dominatrix was not afraid to hurt his feelings and “cut through the bulls*it.”
For these clients, “getting their lives together” is mixed with a type of sexual activity they already enjoy. 
In effect, it’s like “killing two birds with one stone.” 
For submissive men and women, wanting to “please” their Mistress can be a powerful motivator, and rewards and punishments can help them make lasting changes in their lives.
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<h2>How To Bring BDSM Into Your Bedroom…</h2>
If you and your partner are interested in giving BDSM practices a try, there’s no reason not to. 
If anything, you’ll develop a stronger relationship. It’s not as foreign a concept as you might think–for example, so many people are interested in receiving or administering spankings in a sexual context, and at the end of the day this is BDSM, too! 
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<a href=”https://gothamclub.com/bdsm-introduction/” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>BDSM</a> can lead to better communication skills because it requires clear communication–for example, it’s important that your partner know and respect your safe word. 
It can also reinvigorate your sex life, as studies have shown that trying anything sexually new to you and your partner increases the release of endorphins. 
Whether with your partner or a professional dominatrix, BDSM activities can improve your life in more way than one.
Plus, many studies show many women have fantasies about kinky sex too!
Like this really popular one, for example:
<figure class=”wp-block-image”><a href=”https://gothamclub.com/3-rough-moves-she-craves//?post=indigo211052019a”><img width=”800″ height=”533″ src=”https://gothamclub.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/bdsm-facts-2.jpg” alt=”bdsm facts” class=”wp-image-11582″ srcset=”https://gothamclub.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/bdsm-facts-2.jpg 800w, https://gothamclub.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/bdsm-facts-2-300×200.jpg 300w, https://gothamclub.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/bdsm-facts-2-768×512.jpg 768w, https://gothamclub.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/bdsm-facts-2-272×182.jpg 272w” sizes=”(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px”></a><figcaption>Surveys show being dominated is one of the most common sexual fantasies women have… check out how to dominate women for MAX pleasure below:</figcaption></figure><h2>Did You Know More Than HALF Of Women Have a Kinky “Domination Fantasy”?</h2>
In a <a href=”https://gothamclub.com/3-rough-moves-she-craves/?post=12212021a” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>2015 study</a> from Dr. Christian Joyal, over 64% of women and 53% of men reported having fantasies of being sexually dominated… so if you’re curious about experimenting with BDSM, you’re definitely not alone. 😉
But how do you figure out if your woman is interested in trying it too?
Well there are two ways you can approach this…
1) Sit her down, tell her what you’d like to do to her, and see how she responds… (you’ve got about a 50/50 shot there)…
2) OR you can simply “ease” her into it with any one of <a href=”https://gothamclub.com/3-rough-moves-she-craves/?post=12212021a-bl” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>these 3 rough s*x moves, that almost all women secretly LOVE… (but won’t ask for).</a>
I know which one I’d prefer ;-)…
Because rough s*x is something a LOT of women crave… even shy girls, or women who seem kinda “boring” in bed.
Take getting choked for example.
I’ve got a girlfriend who works as a data entry specialist… she basically sits at a computer all day long… and is one of the quietest people I know.
And <a href=”https://gothamclub.com/3-rough-moves-she-craves/?post=12212021a” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>she says she orgasms TWICE as hard when the guy is choking her… </a>and in fact now she pretty much “begs” to be choked every time she has sex… (her words, not mine lol).
This is apparently because choking cuts off air flow to your head, and forces more blood *down there*… <a href=”https://gothamclub.com/3-rough-moves-she-craves/?post=112212021a” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>which makes everything feel waaaaay more intense.</a>
The best part?
Studies show when you dominate a woman in this way… you’ll feel more sexual pleasure too… (it’s a win-win)!
So if you want to know the absolute best choking technique for powerful, earth-shattering orgasms…
… plus two more simple rough s*x moves that’ll make your woman beg YOU for more…
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