I’m guessing you’ve got at least a handful of friends who met their sweeties online.
Maybe you and your friends use online dating for casual hookups. Or maybe you even know someone who tied the knot with someone they met online!
Of course, online dating is hugely popular. What used to be a little bit taboo, especially for young people, is now extremely commonplace.
In fact, you might suspect that apps like Tinder make it harder to hit on someone in person!
After all, it’s easier to make an advance, and deal with rejection, if it’s happening online instead of in line, say, at the supermarket.
So, these days, about forty percent of couples are meeting online. (For same-sex couples, that’s a whopping sixty-five percent!)
Yeah, online dating is huge, and for some people it works.
But it’s not the only way!
With the rise of online dating, you might suspect that the number of couples who meet in person has gone way down.
I mean, back before Tinder, people had to meet each other in person, and where better to do that than a bar or restaurant?
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Meanwhile, twenty-five percent of couples these days report meeting at a bar or restaurant.
That’s a much smaller number than forty, right? But it’s still pretty substantial!
Amazingly, in 1940, only ten percent of couples reported meeting in a bar or restaurant.
What!? If those folks weren’t meeting each other when wining and dining, then where the heck were they meeting?
Well, probably a lot of ways—dating was a lot less casual back then, so they were being set up by their parents a lot more often. Or they met through church, or other similar activities, or mutual friends.
After all, a lot of our lives have moved online now, which eliminates a lot of the old-fashioned ways of meeting folks.
For example, dating your neighbor took a nosedive starting in 2000, right around the time online dating became more popular.
Whatever happened to the girl next door thing?
Tinder erased her, my friend. She’s inside staring a the glow of her smartphone.
In fact, some people might even feel creepy making a move in person, when it’s so much easier to do it online. I mean, when someone’s on a dating app, at least you know what they’re looking for, right?
Meeting through family members has also fallen in popularity—who needs Mom’s awkward suggestions when you’ve got the Tinder universe at your fingertips!
Now, I’m not telling you all of this to encourage you to dash off and update your Tinder pics.
Just wait, there’s a secret here!
How Bars & Restaurants Make It Actually Easy to Meet Hot Single Women…
How can this information help you find your next date?
The restaurant/bar scene is an untapped gold mine, my friend.
Don’t just take my word for it—this information comes from a new study put out by Stanford University!
According to the study, online dating recently defeated friend-of-a-friend dating. In other words, before 1995, your best shot at hooking up with somebody was your bro introducing you.
Now, couples are meeting via mutual friends much less frequently, the study shows.
Instead, they’re meeting online, of course.
But guess where else they’re meeting?
Out and about!
That’s right, couples are hooking up at bars and restaurants like it’s 1989.
The Stanford study revealed that just about every method of meeting a partner has decreased since the rise of online dating—from meeting through friends, to meeting as coworkers—except one.
That one way? Meeting in bars and restaurants!
Like online dating, meeting this way is on the rise.
Hm. Maybe that’s because there’s one thing you can’t do through an app (yet): eat and drink!
Nope, you can’t eat your Pinterest board, folks. (Not that I’ve tried.)
People are still going out with their friends, at least once in a while, even with so much fun and excitement on the internet.
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What does that mean for a guy on the lookout for his next relationship, or his next hookup?
Go to restaurants and bars.
That’s your homework!
You might feel awkward at first, but it’s a public place. It’s not like you’re knocking on her front door. If she’s not interested, she’ll make that clear, and you can move on to the next pretty lady.
But she might just be flattered! After all, in a digital world, a lot of us have started to crave face-to-face interaction.
And who doesn’t want to have a meet-cute?
Aren’t we all getting a little tired of the “We met on Tinder” line?
So what are you waiting for? Take a shower, put on your favorite shirt, grab your buddies, and hit the town.
Meeting in a bar or restaurant gives you something to talk about right away—what are you drinking? What are you eating? Do you come here often? You get the picture.
However, I get it… it’s not always “easy” to approach new women, even if you have a question prepared.
So that’s why I always recommend you try this (especially if you want to take a hot girl home at the end of the night):
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It can be nerve-wracking to walk up to a complete stranger at a bar or restaurant, I won’t deny that…
But the science doesn’t lie:
If she’s there and isn’t with a guy or wearing a wedding ring… then chances are she’s looking to meet a man, hook up, or even get laid that night.
(This includes women who are out in groups too by the way… because most guys don’t realize this, but “girls’ night out” is basically girl code for “let’s go out and get laid”)
Personally, I find it extremely frustrating when I’m out hoping to meet a regular fun guy… and they just don’t come up to talk to me.
However, you don’t have to be one of these guys who goes to a bar and just stands against a wall with a drink to your chest… instead you can use this easy conversation starter ←
I’d LOVE it if a guy came up to me and started up a conversation this way!
It’s very light, it doesn’t come off as phony at all… and it’s a great way to get a conversation rolling… especially in a bar or restaurant.
Because if the lighting is dim, and she’s REALLY feeling frisky… she may even try to feel you up under the table if you use this right. 😉
It was created by Gotham Club’s founder Craig Miller, and if guys at bars talked to me like this… well… I wouldn’t be single.
So below is a short, powerful presentation that shows you what to say… when to say it for the FASTEST hookup possible…
Plus what you can follow it up with to make her hot and horny for you… and eager to bang you that same night: